Humour, determination, resilience, patience, courage .... When we help someone who ‘needs’ us, their strength is revealed.

Vickie Cammack
PLAN Institute for Caring Citizenship
Thu, 06/05/2008
Edna had been worrying about Miltonʼs future. She told Irene about the network she and Milton were working to set up. Milton was lonely. He had always been in special programs as a child. He had worked for awhile in a sheltered workshop and now in middle age he volunteered a few hours at the local seniorʼs home.

Milton had to go into the hospital for extensive orthopaedic surgery. It was clear Edna could not care for him when he was due to leave the hospital. Irene and Miltonʼs network created a plan to share the care for Milton in his own apartment. During this time Irene took to calling Milton every night just before bedtime to check in and see how everything was. On good days he would make her laugh by whistling the theme song from ʻThe Andy Griffith Show.ʼ

Miltonʼs recovery progressed well and soon he no longer needed the daily support of his network friends. But Irene kept calling anyway and thatʼs what changed their relationship into a mutually supportive friendship. As Irene puts it, “I donʼt know. I just kind of got into the habit of calling Milton every night. And itʼs nice, you know. The nights donʼt seem so long because now I have someone to say goodnight to."