When we contribute we belong.

Vickie Cammack
PLAN Institute for Caring Citizenship
Thu, 06/05/2008
Edna had been worrying about Miltonʼs future. She told Irene about the network she and Milton were working to set up. Milton was lonely. He had always been in special programs as a child. He had worked for awhile in a sheltered workshop and now in middle age he volunteered a few hours at the local seniorʼs home.

Irene is a willowy, no nonsense sort of Brit. A few years back, as she and her husband were about to enter their early retirement years, he passed away suddenly. Ireneʼs life changed radically. She found the nights the hardest. She was forced to make some tough decisions that included moving to an apartment. She hoped she would feel less lonely closer to others. When moving day came the first people she met at her new building were Milton and his elderly mother, Edna. When Irene overheard the soft British accents she introduced herself and a three way friendship began.

During an early visit she learned that Milton lived a few miles away but made regular visits to his mother. Edna told Irene about how she too had lost a husband and how she had been worrying about Miltonʼs future. She told Irene about the network she and Milton were working to set up. Milton was lonely. He had always been in special programs as a child. He had worked for a while in a sheltered workshop and now in middle age he volunteered a few hours at the local seniors' home. Edna worried because he tended to watch too much television, especially in the daytime when his favourite ʻStarsky and Hutchʼ and ʻThe Andy Griffith Showʼ were on.

Milton was immediately charmed by Irene. Irene is a wonderful listener and she was committed to helping others in this new phase of her life. Over time Irene became a member of Miltonʼs network. At first she saw her time with Milton as a part of her volunteer work. Then a crisis struck that resulted in a true friendship.